I love dreamy sex. Most early morning sex is when I’m still clinging to the last comforting strands of a dream while his hands pull me into consciousness. But my favourite type of dreamy sex is the middle of the night sex.
For years we have always had sex in the middle of the night. Often waking up to find I’m sliding up and down on his cock. It’s usually at least two hours into our nights sleep, sometimes more. We have a long running debate on who starts these sessions. Joyfully claiming it’s the other person that started it, we can never agree. It just seems to happen so we affectionately nicknamed it Tourettes Sex. Something we can’t help, that just happens.
I claim he pushes his erection up against me until I can’t help but want it inside me. He insists I start playing with his cock sometimes just rubbing my arse up and down on it until we are right in the middle of it. We enjoy blaming each other for our unconscious playing but I think I’ve finally worked out what is happening.
Men get night time erections. Apparently a healthy man has 3-5 erections each night lasting approximately 25 mins each. This is usually associated with REM sleep and although they really don’t know why they know it’s a sign everything is normal because problems with blood pressure means these stop happening.
My husband and I only have a normal double bed and have always slept very close together. Often turning together so we are always spooning. I believe that his night time erection have caught me at similar point in a lighter moment in my sleep pattern so I’m aware of it pressed up against me. Maybe mistaking this for thoughts that he’s interested. Maybe stirring the aroused part of my dreamy brain too so I start rubbing up against it. Either with my butt or with a hand till he stirs enough to be aware of what I’m doing. It doesn’t take long for it to progress to full PIV sex. Lazy, comforting and slow. What does surprise me is he’s often got a filthy mouth on him during this kind of sex and he tells me some incredibly dirty things which often sets me off easily. When we are finished we sometimes fall asleep again as we are. Still connected.
Maybe we can blame biology or his healthy blood pressure for this activity, but either way we’ve stopped arguing about who’s started it and just enjoy it.
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I remember doing the same when I was much, much younger, but nowadays my sleep is a lot more important. I do love how sexy you make it sound, though, and I love your playful arguing 😉
Rebel xox
It doesn’t happen as often now, maybe our sleep patterns have changed too. But it’s still lovely when it does x
I have never experienced this but it sounds lovely! Adding to the “wish list” though I am not sure how I would “make it” happen.
La-
It kind of just happens! A little less so now a days – but I would suggest a cold room, smallish bed (one that you don’t need to make an appointment to meet the other one in) sleeping naked and two horny people. Fingers crossed x
There are lots of similarities to us in what you write (why does that not surprise me?) and we can also find ourselves doing drawn in to night time sex. I love the closeness and intimacy that comes across in your relationship, not just from the sexual encounters but from the easy way that you joke with one another about it. Fabulous picture too ?
I love middle of the night sex, too…it seems that in that dream like state, we are softer, more pliable, and willing to say and do things we might otherwise stifle or try to control.
We still do the middle of the night sex – but don’t always spoon as I overheat – yeah getting to that age 😉 Gorgeous photo btw
I love night time sex as long as I don’t need to get up for work, sleep is hard enough to get without being woken up after I’ve finally dropped off…god I sound so grumpy, I must need more sleep *laughs
We did argue about keeping each other awake. We do it less now. Maybe we sleep better or maybe I need my sleep more x
This is such a beautiful image! And though I’m usually too deeply asleep to feel a nighttime erection, I’ve definitely been the beneficiary of a few. 🙂