I was delighted when I saw that “Fisting” was the topic for this Kink Of The Week and I’m going to say it straight out – I love being fisted. I’m going to try and banish the little voices in my head that have been whispering I shouldn’t tell people. The nagging voices that make me worry that it’s because I have a saggy cunt or am just a bit strange. Because one thing this community I’ve found myself in has taught me, is that most of the things we are ashamed about are rubbish.
We discovered fisting several years ago and it’s something I adore. The sensation of being completely full and stretched is addictive. We also found that my husband can generally only fist me with his left hand, because his right (dominant) hand is so much bigger due to the muscles around his thumb from manual labour. I’ve written about how much I love his hands in the blog post.
The two most important things for me about fisting is using loads of lube and taking it really slow. Lube seems an obvious one but I need quite a bit outside my labia and onto my skin not just internally. He also needs to put a lot on his knuckles as these are often very rough and the widest part of his hand and down onto his wrist. The going slow also makes a massive difference. I’m luckily an individual who orgasms easily so if he’s using several fingers inside me I will often orgasm quite quickly. The trick is (for me) just after the peak of my orgasm (the point I clench) I’m often at my stretchiest. So just after I’ve come he can usually push in just a bit further. There are times when it’s easy for him to push in and times when we have to give up too – just like other types of sex. But the great feeling is usually something I strive towards.
I was lucky recently to fist a woman for the first time. The sensation is just as I imagined. The intensity of knowing what she was feeling and how it felt made it all the more enjoyable. The way her cunt gripped onto me when she came, is something I won’t forget. She also did the same for me and it is so much easier with someone with smaller hands but just as pleasurable. I admit I often fantasise about my husband holding my legs open and showing women how to fist me. Like he is giving a lesson and I’m just the demonstration model.
The one other thing I’ve found with fisting is I’m awash with sensations from it which are intense but I don’t get any of the visual stimulations from it as it’s almost impossible for me to watch (I usually have to be laying flat on my back). So if I am getting fisted it’s the one time I often grab my phone and take some video footage to watch – either while it’s on going or for later. This footage is probably the most extreme thing I ever take but it always gets me so hot and bothered.
I hope you can make do with just this image of him and me.
If you’d like to read a little fictional story I wrote to go with this image you can read it on my post Fisting Tutorial Story
I have only fisted someone once. It was at her request and it did take some time— but there was no rush. I remember feeling like she could shatter my arm with a simple movement when I was inside her. But she clearly enjoyed the experience. She came so many times. When I finally removed my hand and forearm, I was struck by how cold my arm felt.
In hindsight I also remember how I didn’t orgasm. She was domming me and didn’t allow me too. I masturbated when I got home.
Thank you for sharing this, I really enjoyed reading your description, and the photo is so hot..!
I haven’t managed to experience this but I imagine it must feel quite overwhelming.
Xxx
Overwhelming but in a great way x
Yes, that’s what I imagine ??
Fabulous and honest.
I love the picture.
And you made this guy so fucking hard.
❤❤❤
This is a great post and I am so pleased that you did decide to share it. I know what you mean about people thinking it is weird but also the need to be able to own our own kinks. Your picture is amazing and it was a bit of a wow moment when I got to the end and saw the full thing 🙂
Owning our own kinks is hard, but I know what you mean. Thank you x
This isn’t something I’ve done, but I must admit I’ve thought about it, and I’ve definitely been pondering it since I saw it on the KOTW list. I don’t know if it’s something I’ll ever get round to doing, but if I read a few more posts like your then I might just be a bit keener to give it a go someday 🙂 especially after seeing that picture, which is quite hard to look away from x
I did keep the full photo till the end. Should I have a warning on it?
A fantastic post! Thank you for sharing – some of my favourite erotica is based around fisting – it seems the anticipation is just incredible. I wanted to share Big Handed Sam with you by Malin James but I can’t find it anywhere -you might have more luck. It’s a beautiful story.
Great post! And yes, by talking about it we can shed this shame or worry that we’re odd x x
Even before I read your sexy words the image had me hot and bothered, and oh yes, I share your feeling about being fisted! I love the full feeling!
Rebel xox
I LOVE fisting. All three of my partners love doing it with me. It’s a staple. It’s great because now I rarely have sex that doesn’t involve fisting. We’re working on two hands even! Thanks for sharing and that pic is hot!!
I’m clearly missing out on something. You’re not the only one who’s getting hot and bothered by the picture you post and the way you describe the feeling. Wonderful post!
Thank you so much for sharing this, what may be one of the hottest images you’ve ever posted.
Unnnfff!!!
Hot image! I’ve never been a receiver or a giver of a fisting, but it sounds really intense and pleasurable. Thanks for letting us in on your experiences of it.
That image is so fucking hot, and a brilliant accompaniment to your brilliant descriptions. And I’m really glad you can sufficiently banish the ashamed voices in your hear to share your sexy experiences with us.
Thank you x
Loved the post, and also the pic 😉
Wow !!!
well done. Your description is hot getting and recieving i am straining in my cage and twitching in my backside as i read it and then the photo. Amazing
Thank you for over coming the voices and for sharing.
btw i read it twice
I am very glad you shared your experiences, I completely can relate to having those feelings of being ‘weird’. Fisting someone else must have been really intense, I can’t imagine what that would feel like but I certainly like being on the receiving end. And wow that picture is soo hot, never thought of taking a picture during the act!
It’s one of those things that I didn’t really think anyone else did! Really pleased I’ve had such a positive reply to it from everyone. Thank you x
Yes thanks for sharing.
Have you ever tried “ sounding “ ?
This is one of the hottest images I have seen in a very long time and does make me wonder if I could ever manage it
Mollyx
You should see the video footage ???
I have had some experience with fisting in the past and have enjoyed it tremendously.
There is not very much like it.
Good advice on the lube,
Spectacular image! I don’t think you need a warning. I’ve loved fisting a partner. The sheer intensity is transmitted through my hand. Big rush!