One of the hottest things, but something I’ve struggled with in the past, is when he’s told me to play with myself so he can watch. In our living room, in front of the fire, it’s warm enough for me to strip off and let him sit across from me. My legs open. Often he’ll grab a toy and tell me to use it. I like large, firm/hard dildos. My most recent acquisition is this beautiful large sparkly turquoise Adam from Godemiche. It has a satisfying stretch, and it’s effective if he wants to see me make a mess. Luckily my sofas are leather and I can clean them easily. Unfortunately the carpet not so much. So if that’s the plan we grab our waterproof sheet from Sheets of San Francisco.
It’s amazing he can sit and watch for quite some time before join in. The rewards from learning to love showing him while I play, definitely outweigh the initial embarrassment of spreading my legs for him.
I have only recently got the confidence to play while being watched, but I find it quite empowering now.
That is a beautiful and colourful dido.
I’m glad you’ve moved forward too x
Showing him is one of my favourite things to do. I find it a huge turn on to be watched and I think spending 18 months on skype definitely helped me to grow in confidence when it came to that
Mollyx
Ooh, I love showing off as well. With us it often happens after intercourse and he has already come. Nothing better than him sleepily watch me while I play with myself.
Oh! I’m a fan of playing afterwards too. But maybe less of a show then.
I’m totally with you on this dildo – in fact I have the exact same one, fell in love with the colour/sparkle. I love the suggestiveness and humour of your photo. Delightful!
Indie
That’s a stunning dildo!
I am always shy when Master T tells me he wants to watch me, but once I get past the shyness, I enjoy it 🙂
Rebel xox
Absolutely love the framing and focus on this one! And masturbating for, or watching, a partner is one of my absolute favorites too, but I totally get that initial embarrassment.
It’s easily one of the most intimate acts we share with ourselves. It’s so personal, vulnerable, and exploratory. So I think it’s natural that sharing that, even with a partner, can sometimes feel a little overwhelming.
LOVE the image.
This is SUCH a beautiful image (if you’d like to submit for MM, I won’t mind, lol). And I find it hard at the beginning of being watched, but once I’m into it, I forget everything else.