One of the hottest things, but something I’ve struggled with in the past, is when he’s told me to play with myself so he can watch. In our living room, in front of the fire, it’s warm enough for me to strip off and let him sit across from me. My legs open. Often he’ll grab a toy and tell me to use it. I like large, firm/hard dildos. My most recent acquisition is this beautiful large sparkly turquoise Adam from Godemiche. It has a satisfying stretch, and it’s effective if he wants to see me make a mess. Luckily my sofas are leather and I can clean them easily. Unfortunately the carpet not so much. So if that’s the plan we grab our waterproof sheet from Sheets of San Francisco.

It’s amazing he can sit and watch for quite some time before join in. The rewards from learning to love showing him while I play, definitely outweigh the initial embarrassment of spreading my legs for him.

11 thoughts on “Let me watch

  1. Showing him is one of my favourite things to do. I find it a huge turn on to be watched and I think spending 18 months on skype definitely helped me to grow in confidence when it came to that


  2. I’m totally with you on this dildo – in fact I have the exact same one, fell in love with the colour/sparkle. I love the suggestiveness and humour of your photo. Delightful!

  3. Absolutely love the framing and focus on this one! And masturbating for, or watching, a partner is one of my absolute favorites too, but I totally get that initial embarrassment.

    It’s easily one of the most intimate acts we share with ourselves. It’s so personal, vulnerable, and exploratory. So I think it’s natural that sharing that, even with a partner, can sometimes feel a little overwhelming.

  4. This is SUCH a beautiful image (if you’d like to submit for MM, I won’t mind, lol). And I find it hard at the beginning of being watched, but once I’m into it, I forget everything else.

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