“It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure.” – Marquis de Sade
I would describe my sexual desire as submissive. I’m a very independent woman generally and I’m always having to be in control of things generally in my life so to be able (and willing) to give up control to someone in the bedroom is difficult but wonderfully liberating. I like pain but not too much, I like being tied and used. I like being objectified and humiliated but only about specific things. The biggest humiliation for me is when he asks me to admit to what I like and makes me ask for it. For me the hurdle of admitting I like being hit is one thing but getting over the hurdle of asking him to hit me is so much more difficult.
Although he knows this well and can play me like a fiddle.
Last week he tied my tits and tortured them. Most of the time while fucking my face. I think there was cropping, flogging, slaps, pinches and boy I needed the distraction. The pain seems to wipe my brain clear. Like hitting a reset button. It blocks out all the stress and worries and thoughts of work and means I can only concentrate on that one thing. The feeling my body is having. I can orgasm from pain but it’s rare. Usually it just makes me beg him to fuck me.
I don’t really see myself as a masochist because it all seems so sensible (and rather limited) to me, but deep down I know that’s what really gets me going.
Damn, you look good in this picture. There are times when being tortured is the only thing that will hit that button right.
🪤oh yes
Very deep and personal! Just the right amount of pain helps you focus on the pleasure that it brings.
Beautiful image and a wonderful insight into the joy of pain – it often hits that reset button for me too.
Oh, Missy!! You have nailed it this week <3 I adore this post – the words paired with that delicious image are perfection. Stunning xx
This is a great shot.
OMG … this photo sends all the tingles. Foreground … and … background.
Very sexy … very, very !!!
Xxx – K
“The pain seems to wipe my brain clear. Like hitting a reset button.” THIS. I can so relate to this… I miss having that so much right now. The space to just slide away into that intense moment and forget about everything else…yeah I miss that
Molly
I just love this photo, the way it tells a completely story, so good. And the way you describe pain as a reset is really spot on, it’s the same for me.
I totally agree on the reset button! I seem to be so on edge right now I can’t get past that initial being touched stage so that reset button seems a bit faulty. Love this image though, I would love my breasts to be bound in that way.