Blow Jobs Top Tips

Earlier this week, someone asked on twitter for any tips on blow jobs and at that point I was early for a meeting and sat in my car with nothing to keep me entertained so I quickly replied with a list (seen below). Not only did it get lots of comments but there has been discussions about whether I should put on some masterclasses too! I thought I’d drop these into a blog post with a couple of little edits for people to easily access if they want.

I’ll be honest I love sucking cock. There are few things that make me feel as sexually powerful as when I’m on my knees teasing and tempting, and making the person moan. Maybe that’s why I love oral sex on vulva owners too.

There should be the usual proviso to any sexual advice which is these work for me on the penis owners I’ve had the pleasure of pleasuring. That doesn’t mean everyone will like all or any of these tips but it’s just my ideas quickly dropped onto the page.

1) Tongue licking around the rim/head of the cock until they are getting desperate and then a full mouthful of cock. Keep repeating. Tease and indulge.

2) When the cock is full in your mouth make swallowing motion with your tongue. It presses the cock up against your palate and squeezes it nicely.

3) With the cock in your mouth run the tip of the tongue up one side to the tip and then down the other and go back. (This does need some oral gymnastics but it’s very effective)

4) Once you have the cock as far back as you can get it look at them straight in the eye. Hot as fuck.

4)a) If at that point you can press back harder and make yourself gag while watching them and they know you’ve done it for them, it’s often tips them over the edge.

5) Give yourself a break for a while and stroke the cock or ask them to do it while licking or sucking the balls. (Really useful if you get a sore or stiff jaw if kept open wide for any length of time)

5)a) If your mouth/lips are getting tired (keeping the pressure up) use your hands just below your lips and grip firmly so you don’t have to just use your mouth to get all the firm pressure from.

6) Gently grip around both balls with one hand, make a ring with the fingers and gently (and I mean gently) pull. Just keep a light pressure here and it works like a cock ring.

7) Don’t worry about what you look like. The enthusiasm is what makes it sexy as hell. That includes making encouraging noises. Sometimes the hum or an ahhh works well as the vibration is nice on the cock too.

8) And finally be super careful after they have come. It’s often VERY sensitive and not always pleasant to keep going. Gentle licks to get the last drop is allowed. But if they want you off don’t be offended.

Colour photograph of a couple on a bed showing the top of a woman’s head with her hair hanging down over the crotch of the man as she’s probably engaging in a blow job. Her hair is golden and a long bob in length

16 Comments

  1. This is a great list. I love sucking cock too and it always surprises me when friends say they just don’t do it. Like you, I take pride in doing it well. I agree with sweet about the photo too – very hot 😊

  2. These are some excellent tips – and a VERY hot photo. I’m happy that you included “Don’t worry about what you look like. The enthusiasm is what makes it sexy as hell.” – that’s a cornerstone of all of the oral sex I give.

  3. I agree with all these tips. I didn’t use to like blow jobs, but the more I do it, the more I enjoy it, much to my husband’s delight.

    1. I often think it’s the same with lots of things. Especially if you are getting better at them. And thanks for the comment x

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