Mutual masturbation as a term makes me think more about people playing when in different locations rather than something done as a couple together.
It is something that is a common part of our sex life but when I sat down to write this post it made me instantly think about being apart but enjoying intimacy together. I grew up before smart phones, so as a young adult I used either phone sex (landlines in shared houses were tricky) or online chat rooms (also difficult as we didn’t have our own computers so it was usually a university computer room thing!)
The difference from then to now is immense. The ability to chat either by text, send pictures, voice messages, videos or live video link can be held in my hand and turned on or off in a millisecond. With apps like Periscope, Snapchat, Skype, WhatsApp and FaceTime mutual masturbation has become an incredibly easy way to spend some spare time, and something this horny woman likes to engage in.
Two people, hundreds or thousands of miles apart, sexually attracted and playing at the same time together, connected over their screens. The most intimate moments shared. The sounds heard, the fingers and toys watched, the heart rate raised. My all time favourite is when they ask just to watch my face. A skill it took some time to master. Trying to hold my phone still and steady and on my face while playing with my other hand. Keeping my eyes open and watching the screen. It’s an intense experience keeping eye contact as you orgasm. Often one orgasm setting off the other person.
Once I sent someone an audio recording of my masturbation. I know it was one of their favourite things and possibly the best thing I ever sent them. The illicit nature of these shared moments make for explosive orgasms.