My idea of what fucking is has changed over the years. As a late teen and early 20’s it was all about penis in vagina sex (PIV) but that’s because I was ill informed and only fucking people with penises. Since then my knowledge and experiences have increased and my idea of fucking now includes fingers, tongues, toys as well as cocks.

As much as I like to be held, licked, caressed too I much prefer to be penetrated. I get off on clitoral stimulation but I generally need some penetration to really get the fireworks going. Even if that’s just someone pressing their fingers into my mouth. I’m more submissive sexually and I love getting fucked. Pressed and pounded, handled firmly but also teased and tickled and fiddled with until I’m begging. But I have done the fucking too. I wrote about my first time with my strap on and just reading that back again makes me squirm.

The joy of discovering different ways to fuck with different people has been amazing during the last few years (although obviously limited this year) If fucking is like music and I am the same instrument, it’s fascinating how it can be a whole different musical genre from fucking one person to the next.

There is great comfort in fucking with someone you love and physically know so intimately, as you can push the boundaries or even just fall back into the familiar positions and routines you know work well for both of you. One of my favourite positions is when I lie on my back with my legs wide but up high and often over his shoulders. The great depth and force he can put on there but the intimacy of still being face to face always makes for explosive orgasms.

Black and white photograph of him fucking me  you can just see his arse and well defined back  with my legs sticking out either side of him
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7 thoughts on “Fucking

  1. Beautiful image. And you speak truth. At least as I see it. There are as many ways as moments and even when with your lover doing the familiar something ne is always possible. And the fuck is glorious.

  2. This is just fabulous. I love deep penetration and this position is also one of my favourites. There is something so sexy about discovering new ways of fucking as well as enjoying those favourites.

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